way we appreciated by others

NEVER once in a while we destroy the image of others, boast themselves, exaggerate the problem (indulgence in vices / faults of others), either openly or in secret alias (talking from behind), let alone to spread the slander, I think people people like they are worthless in the eyes of others ...

So actually how the heck do we appreciated by the people around us ...?

Terbesit such a question in my mind ...
Hmm ... how can I discuss this matter, I do know apa2 ga about ways that we can be appreciated by people all around us ... I'm just a coolie factory workers who really do not have any experience, my knowledge is also ga very high, I'm just stm graduates with a value below the average ...

This article is actually inspired by someone who is now a leader in my current environment ...
I say many thanks to you because thanks to you I can make an article about 'the way that we are appreciated by others' around us.

Hopefully my tips from a layman and do not have much experience / knowledge can be useful to all of you readers and visitors to my blog.

Then how to kia appreciated by people all around us
Surely everyone is eager to be appreciated by the people around him, wanting to be proud of and want to always listen to what his words.
But would that we can accomplish if we are someone who has characteristics as follows (the following I include the solution that we can be respected by others: (I think)

1. Is worth this, if we always come up with a look manyun (frown) without cause, halah .... The new thing in the morning also came kok udah manyun (frown), mending if only occasionally, you try to imagine if we see people who were before us manyun (frown) every day (and for no reason). wew .. What we tuh ga stress on him ... Haha ...
Is not better, if we always come up with a face full of joy (smiles to those around us), and perhaps it would be better if we decorate our smiles with the word (hello): Good morning, morning spirit , morning, or something which is important to make people near us are comfortable with our arrival.

2. Is worth this, if we always ask for help from another in a voice too loud, and by shouting (usually orders from superiors to subordinates) 'always wanted to be appreciated but he never tried / do not know how to appreciate the people underneath'. Hmmm ....
Is not better, if we ask for help in a more subtle, and decorated with a little smile and it would be better if we ask for it by saying 'please / please help'. Although the position we / us higher dignity of the person, but if wrong if we say 'please' when we ask for help from others, whether the position / dignity we seem lower than others around us if we do it , baseball must do, in fact we can be more appreciated (I think), because of having the trait of humility does not mean we are inferior. * Yes ... I am really sotoy. Haha ...

3. Does everything always have to be done in haste. Whether by way of a hurry, what we do will look more tidy and faster than we do with the casual / Relax. If you think anyway, is not always what we do must be done in a hurry (just in a hurry sometimes even make what we are doing so less neat / slipshod / sometimes there is a mistake because we focus only on speed rather than accuracy in do so) does cepet hell but neat / nice / correct result I do not know.

4. Is worth this, if we just want respect but we never appreciate others who surround us, wants to win his own, always mencari2 mistakes of others without ever conscious of our own fault (never ngaca yourself).
Is not it better if we respect other people first before we expect would be appreciated people (ngaca yourself before judging others), find out what our mistakes and correct them first before questioning someone else's fault. We're just ordinary people who do not make mistakes, so (according to our view of right / good, is it right / good is also the view of others), every human being has the character and look different, so it is not always what we think is right / will either be right / good also by others (except the cries of Allah and His Messenger, it is definitely true and good).

5. Say 'thank you' after we get help from others.

so, if we want to be appreciated by others, try to respect ourselves first and then try to respect other people first before we expect to be respected by others, smile because a smile can make the atmosphere comfortable / not tense / stiff ( reasonable smile smile if later you actually fair ga considered a madman ... gkgkgk ..), do not hesitate to say 'Please, (greetings), Thank You (Praise) for a business person'.
Approach and the love of God because if we are close to / in love with God (away from his ban and other what melaksanankan which he commanded), then Hopefully God will always exalt the dignity of our loved ones is also our own families (especially parents), DO remember ever once in a while we destroy the image of others, boast themselves, to exaggerate the problem (indulgence in vices / faults of others), either openly or in secret alias (talking from behind), let alone to spread the slander, I think people people like them worthless in the eyes of others ...